Making Happy

Negativity is getting further away.A new strength of observation and connection to what is best for all replaces Ego judgement.A knowingness arises from always Stepping In for the good of all and there is conviction that this is the way to go.While Ego Mind creates belief and opinion and doggedly holds on, conviction here is the experience of being genuinely in touch with the highest potential and representing that.It doesn’t have to happen if something else more appropriate is presented.As these potentials unfold, you continue to be the one who represents or is the ambassador for the good of all.Empowering StatementThere is a way through this and you’ll find it.You’ll keep going until you feel solid inside.The way will reveal itself to you if you keep applying yourself and stay focused.Fearless, 68Fear underlies the stress inherent in tiles 20–29 and seems to be wired into us from birth.You can be fearless in repressing it, or quashing it the moment Ego feels it.However, burying fear doesn’t overcome it in the long term.Instead, take every fear as an opportunity to find out what lies behind it.Identify the Entrapment and return to tiles 60–64 in order to work with it and understand it.The body can still tense up, the impulse to run away or go into battle can still be there, but with time the reaction can be less severe and last for less time and recede into the background.Fearless doesn’t have to mean absolutely no sign of fear.It can be that fear is attempting to register its Entrapment but the power of this tile reminds you to keep solid as you navigate your chosen path.Other descriptions of this way of living are bold, intrepid and audacious.Stepping into life at this level is underpinned by a conviction born of experience.Undaunted by another person’s Entrapment persuasions, fearless enters the challenge with the Witness Mind very engaged because at any moment, an old fear story may try to sabotage proceedings.It was intuitively felt as the highest potential.Witness confidence replaces fear.Empowering StatementIt’s up to you what attitude you have towards life.If life is now a game, instead of fear, what does it take to have wonder?It’s not about the outcome, it’s about playing the game of life, being with life.You’re engaged in the present unfolding that fear cannot enter.You’re focused on creating.Fully In, 69Fully In is a type of maturation and depth where it really does feel like you are on board with the adventure in a consistent, ongoing way and the saboteur has been put to rest.Completely in may be a real challenge as this means you align with the undertaking, but you may not be aware of all variables involved in the unfolding of the undertaking.This Revelation reveals a thoroughness to your dedication and a comprehensiveness to your consideration of all it entails.The bigger picture has a power that you’re tapping into and you know your persistence is going to make a difference.You are able to ensure your involvement and have the strength of will to stay with the highest potential that can unfold.In its entirety, as much of which is known to you, you can dedicate yourself to the endeavour.This type of Stepping In inspires others.The lessons learned may or may not be appropriate in the new context that is presenting.Fully In can let go of the past quickly so as to be fully available for the project or team.You’ve faced the triggers that could pull you below 60 and they no longer have any power over you.You aspire to the higher tiles.This is the gateway to true power.Delaying how you act can be the difference between engaging an automatic defence mechanism and responding with clarity after seeking more context.Teams respond to this flow of positivity.Coming Up NextOnce living with integrity becomes part of a person’s way of interacting in the world, more opportunities arise that deepen the capacity to affect more complex situations.So, what are the qualities or attitudes of being open and transparent?Read on to discover your potential as a leader who knows how to be a team player.Leaders operating from 60 and above ‘have their backs’, encourage, endorse, affirm, validate and promote their team members.As you access the tiles towards 100, the ability to do this for your team members becomes an ability to be this for your team members – the power of the tiles shines through you.70–79 – The Level of OpeningWhile Stepping In has a lot to do with developing the Witness Mind through developing yourself, Opening is now about preparing yourself for the greater potential that exists in collaboration and moving into ‘we’.You feel for what lies ahead for others, the team or whoever is coming together under your leadership.As you learn to step in, you will begin to learn how to be more available for the multitude of challenges and complications that a more complex life will bring.The more Stepping In you are capable of, the more you will need to know about what real openness actually means because authenticity is the key to moving into the energy of Transforming and we need to be open to being very real.Receptive, 70Being receptive to life and to people, especially those you were closed off to before, is going to multiply the number of opportunities that are created.A yielding attitude does not mean weakness.We are compliant when required and it enables us to navigate tricky situations that Ego would otherwise have pushed through regardless of the consequences or else Ego would have created a sense of failure.Not being precious about Ego sensitivity and taking things personally means we can tolerate more and learn more in any given circumstance.Being cordial, friendly and conscious of others’ needs and qualities helps you to be receptive as well.Being amenable and approachable are wonderful qualities that inspire receptiveness in others.Empowering StatementYou are genuinely interested in the other’s points of view.Diversity is valuable.You understand things differently.You share your point of view with others and listen to their understandings.Within the team you have different ideas about how things might be achieved.Witnessing is not the same as looking in order to find ways to control or looking that invites the energy of doubt.It is at the level of Opening and so the effect is an ability to learn without judgement and this takes lots of practice as you were probably taught to judge from an early age and you may have been modelled judgement also.Witnessing does not add any emotional charge to what is being observed, it just lets it be and frees up the other person to ‘be themselves’.As the focus is no longer on what you can get but what you can learn, help or give by Witnessing, things can and will open to you in a way they will not when you judge.By viewing and taking in the unfolding without condemning it, more detail becomes available.Keeping old stories out of the equation means you see things with fresh, new eyes.Not Controlling, but just being with the situation shows you are willing to understand.Another person can instinctively read this quality and feel more relaxed to open themselves in your presence.Beholding the scenario with a sense of the remarkable or impressiveness invites the other to be open too.Witnessing is gathering context to understand, whereas judging is gathering evidence for some personal agenda.Judging and Witnessing have a very different feel about them and you begin to notice more with Witnessing.To drop the old stories opens the possibility of seeing the deeper reality around you.Empowering StatementYou observe the unfolding without attachment.You’re ready to respond rather than react.Within the context, the most useful idea will be chosen.This may change at any moment as the context changes.You watch with interest and curiosity about the unfolding potentials.Ego expects to control every single variable so that when something goes ‘wrong’ or was overlooked, the attitude of Controlling goes into overdrive.Blaming and condemning forces change and there are always negative consequences to forcing change.A liberal approach is more generous, magnanimous and tolerant.It invites others to stay, even in difficult times.Impartial fairness and tolerance facilitate coming together.When our minds are open and inclusive, and we are approachable, there is an honesty and willingness to really get to know how another person functions and what they need to be their best.Encouragement and being open to new things promote creativity and breadth of vision.Creativity thrives as interest and enthusiasm is encouraged.Empowering StatementYou ask questions, seek insight and listen deeply when there is something you don’t understand.Even when you feel you understand something, you remain interested and curious about what everyone offers.Your suggestions are always welcome and will contribute to the highest potential outcome.The more intuitive you are, the more information, guidance and genuine insight into someone else’s nature/intent/agenda you gather.So, trusting is more about trusting yourself rather than someone else.You can ‘read’ a circumstance/situation/person better so you can trust yourself more.Whether another circumstance/situation/person is capable of being genuine or agenda driven becomes more obvious the more you can use Witness Mind.Trusting is Witness Mind confidence.It is not naive or gullible as this type of mind tunes in more than Ego Mind can.You can learn to rely on Witness Mind and the more another person is open, and therefore genuine and authentic, the more you can trust the person.Openness has a type of smart innocence and the Intuitive Mind can feel that.One can confide in such innocence as it is not hiding Ego agenda.There is a benign harmlessness to someone you can trust.While Ego Mind guesses these dynamics and assumes, Witness Mind is learning to actually realize these dynamics by being very present.Empowering StatementYou are to learn to trust yourself before you can learn to trust others.Everything that happens is for your growth.You’re never given more than you can handle.Alignment with trust allows a responsiveness that is intuitive and innately protective.Connected, 74A trusting relationship is truly engaging and full of potential.Truly forging a link with someone else or with the situation sets up a flow of information and exchange that realizes greater potential than surface contact.Taking the time to get to know someone else is a priority because their value is in the person they are rather than Ego wanting something from them.You approach another person, whether a relative, colleague or friend, as someone who has something to offer you through knowing them.There are qualities that may be evident in that person, but some may be buried because of the stories coming from their Entrapments.Being receptive, truly offering the support of the Witness Mind, being open and trusting all create the environment for others to flourish.Alliances can be forged that were not possible in Ego Mind, cohesiveness can activate, liaisons be established.Bonds that are formed create the groundwork for later collaboration.Synergy builds as exchange promotes generosity of spirit.Meetings can be deeply rewarding as the focus is how to bring the best out of each other through connecting.Relationships set the foundation or springboard for the work ahead that might need teamwork and cohesion that deep connections build.Solidarity, joint ventures and mutual alignment through deeper connection give rise to authentic rapport.Empowering StatementThere is a flow between the team that can be nurtured and developed.Through the flow between the team, the shared goal is given power.The number of potential outcomes rises exponentially to the number of persons sharing and connection around a common intent.Collaboration, 75From the deeper connection and trust, we can launch forward with the project or adventure with renewed vigour and a feeling of true partnership.We can all buy in on ways forward as we intuitively know more about each other’s capacities, limitations and preferences through those deeper connections.Knowing how our partners/children/colleagues truly operate in life gives us more intuitive confidence of a way forward.Partnerships can do things that alone we cannot.Associating with those close to us promotes breakthroughs and working together is a delight rather than an Ego competition/confrontation.Concordance, harmony, agreement and accord can be the atmosphere that the work is undertaken in.Consensus is easier, participation enhanced, absenteeism drops.Banding together for a common purpose, assisting each other, celebrating collective team efforts regardless of outcome.The emphasis is on the collective ability of the team and it is to be constantly witnessed and nurtured, not judged.Review and improvement replace blame.We have got each other’s backs and celebrate others’ learning and growth.Empowering StatementIn sharing our resources, we multiply our potentials.We have such diversity, which, when brought together, creates something entirely new.It is wonderful to be a part of deep sharing, which leads to growth and often provides higher outcomes for all.Emerging, 76From this collaboration of connectedness the team creates fresh new ideas and possibilities.‘What’s next?’ is full of possibilities and potential.We are backing ourselves to generate the new.There is a feeling of when we come together we are very capable of giving rise to inventions, discoveries, findings, solutions and breakthroughs.Openness is able to cope with any input, no matter how unusual or strange initially.There is support for a creative outlet being made available so that what was hidden before can now see the light of day.And it is not to be prematurely scrapped.Intuitive Mind needs time to digest it, understand it and penetrate the possibilities of it.Whereas Egotistical was resistant and dismissive, Emerging is inclusive and optimistic, regardless of the input.As we are doing our best to bring forth new input from the Witness Mind, we know it’s about what is being given, not taken.Development, not rejecting things, is the primary focus.Empowering StatementAs each team member brings forth their ideas in the spirit of building one team solution or approach, you are Wars - tic tac too flash game. becoming an example to others.Agile, 77New and emerging ideas can give rise to new and emerging complications, challenges and difficulties.Instead of this being heavy, dreadful and terrible and ‘Let’s find someone to blame’, agile brings forth a type of acceptance of any or all of these things.It is the opposite of abdication, dismissive or a ‘who cares’ attitude.The deeper we go into the Revelations, the more responsibility, attention and energy we need to run the power of these Revelations.It activates to swiftly and keenly deal with whatever presents that needs attention.Agile, fast responses are the order of the day, not panic.It is intelligent in its approach, focusing all its capability to manage the new proposed solution.The skills of the collective shine through.To be agile feels uplifting, even buoyant.An agile attitude is alert, focused and always ready to learn.Empowering StatementYour team is like an octopus.With numerous legs of ideas, each one contributes to the bigger picture and is not overlooked.The ability to adapt to constant changes benefits our team.You explore outside the square and move from linear to abstract.No contribution is overlooked or canned.Every offering has some potential or a key that can support the final outcome.Wow, 78The teamwork feelings that are associated with this type of openness promote a wonderful acceptance of any contribution.Enthusiasm abounds and perhaps a fervent, eager, burning keenness to be involved is what is at the heart of wowThere is a sense of celebration as ‘work’ gives way to ‘entertainment’.Someone just ‘knocked our socks off’, we ‘cracked up’, momentarily we were ‘electrified’, we were ‘enchanted’ or we were ‘delighted’.Empowering StatementWow!The team is achieving beyond what you imagined to be possible at this stage of the project.Keep the momentum moving.It’s awesome to be involved with this team.You are surprised at the level of performance achieved together.You give 100 per cent to the task, unfolding.It grows and gives rise to a smooth, harmonious life.Of course, there will be people or situations in your life that have one or more Entrapments present, but that does not affect your capacity to stay in the flow, it merely prohibits them from breaking into this flowing Revelation with you.However, at flowing, this is taken care of and easily negotiated.It does not feel like a burden, but part of the flow of life as you open to each situation.Each encounter is teaching you something and each person, regardless of the entrapment, is showing you a face of humanity for you to learn and intuitively reach into.When the learning in that relationship has reached some climax or ending, it doesn’t feel negative when you are in the flow.In flowing with life there is a sense that ‘losing’ is not an option, just learning.Whatever happens will be utilized for benefit and no one will be dragged down by judgement.It can feel like you intuitively know what to do next, or what is coming next, and make arrangements for that.Life is a continuous stream of opportunities.There is an unbroken or uninterrupted connection to the team spirit.Empowering StatementWhen the team is in the flow, everything falls into place effortlessly.Things get done that normally wouldn’t get done.